The Fallacy Of Happiness

Everyone just uses "happiness" as a crutch to be ok living meaningless lives

the other week some guy triggered me in the replies of a note i made so now im writing a longform about how fucking dumb what that guy said was. which definitely isnt a proportional response to what was a very inconspicuous comment but nonetheless we are here.

wait what the fuck. the dude deleted his reply. this sucks. idc tho i’ve started writing this shit so we’re gonna see it thru on some finish what u start. just gonna have to describe what happened now which is super annoying but whatever.

basically i posted this

and then some moron responded saying some retarded shit like “but what if they’re happy being circus stripper!”. and thats where i fucking lost it and called him an idiot or dickhead and then asked if he would switch lives w a goldfish if that meant he’d be happier or something i dont remember honestly. goddamnit this is so annoying that i lost my source material. this is prbly how they felt when the library of alexandria burned. life is just a series of annoying things that u have to deal with but thats a topic for another time

what he said is such a room temperature iq response though. “ya what they did is objectively some of the stupidest shit u can do but WHAT IF THEYRE HAPPY!” news flash to all you mouthbreathers out there, happiness isnt real.

ok i dont think i actually believe that im just getting worked up bc this shit is super annoying to me. my main thing is that most people dont have the mental faculties to discern if someone is actually happy or not. people may say they’re happy but if u poke around a little bit into the onion that is their life u can pretty quickly realize oh wow this person wants to kirk themselves fr. which seems like a rational and simple thought to me but if ever do u push back on someones behavior or ask a question or two u get a bunch of mouth breathers who will try to shill the happiness argument on u in an attempt to make u feel like shit.

the example i always bring up to ppl when this subject is broached is that if u were given the option to switch lives w a down syndrome person would you? in theory, they’re always happy and smiley so why not do it? but yet i have never had anyone respond to that question w an emphatic “Yes i will retard myself, thanks for the opportunity sir!”

no shade to my downies out there; i really do fw yall its just like id rather be me. bc i fw myself and understand that there’s more to life than the raw feeling of “happiness”

i think this overall sentiment of prioritizing the outward persona of happiness to the nth degree and ignoring anything else is super frustrating to me bc a lot of people just use it as a trump card and as a lazy excuse to not apply any deeper analysis to the examination of someone elses (or their own) life to see wtf is actually going on.

one of my fav examples is when that toxic couple from back home gets married. they’ve been dating for like 6 years on and off. have definitely cheated on each other. you’ve probably seen them fight at ur local bar bc he’s giga racked to the gills and being super annoying and insuff and she in turn is being a giga thot and just prowling for hog and then he calls her a whore bitch slut or some shit like that. despite all that they have never actually taken any meaningful time apart from another to see if they could maybe not operate like animals and maybe find someone else.

so ya theyre getting married and if ur like “yo this is kinda weird that theyre getting married” some blockhead will undoubtedly be like “WHY WOULD U SAY THAT? THEYRE HAPPY NOW so you should just be HAPPY for them”.

which like makes no sense. theyre probably not happy and someones not the second coming of antichrist for alluding to that fact. like 50% of all marriages ends in divorce. that number goes up way higher when its people who are under the age of 26; which is usually the demographic that tumbles into these ill fated marriages. so in theory the numbers say that theyre probably not happy. if u believe that math is a real thing (on some numbers dont lie); you should be able to say that a couple getting married is probably not happy and youll be right more times than not.

people also use the whole happiness cope as a reason to not try new things which is pretty moronic and something that irks me hella too. you go to someone who’s been living in the same city their entire life or someone who’s working some boring ass dunder mifflin job with no crazy future prospects and go “hey man u ever think about moving somewhere else” or “hey what if you switched into this other thing that may be better for you” and they' go “nah dude im happy where im at everything’s cool” and ppl just expect u to go “oh you said you’re happy? ok then nevermind”

everyone that lives a life like this is coping and also ugly like pam was only hot bc u were comparing her to phyllis (respectfully)

and its like no dude; literally every piece of evidence says this person is just coping sack and doesn’t know what the fuck they’re talking about. they dont even have enough data to be able to say any of that shit. but we’re supposed to take it at face value bc they used the magic word “HAPPY” and ur supposed to be like ya sorry ur goated actually and definitely not ruining ur own potential.

theres this dude on instagram i see pop up all the time and he legit lives the worst life i’ve ever seen.

https://www.instagram.com/lifeby.neal/

like i think id genuinely rather be born in somalia and have to make it out the mud of mogadishu and become a swashbuckling pirate and die of prolonged dependency to khat at the age of 35 than live his bullshit life. At least in that life i’ve actually experienced SOMETHING

he at least has access to a beach and has a job where he can enjoy nature

u cannot tell me that even if someone is supposedly “happy” that their life should consist of ordering their slop to the crib, plating it on shitty tableware that they rest upon their personal goy bench to eat while sitting on the fucking couch. wtf are we talking about

i would change this mfs whole life if i had the chance. he’s never been able to experience doing hella bag at the club while feeling the fucking chunes take possession of his shoulder as he macks face with a chick who he thinks is bad as fuck but who is at best a beautiful mid just being elevated by the ATMOSPHERE (s/o Vikram Singh) . he’s never released his fucking inhibitions and felt the rain on his skin. such a waste of human capital.

if that dude evr experienced this he’d break off his engagement i promise u

but everyone in the comments just glazes him and is like “OMG UR THE BEST LOOKS SO FUN AND HAPPY”. and its like no? that mf is not happy. hes just lying to himself. every human has an urge to strive for more. if he was happy then why is he posting it on social? its not to fucking “normalize this life so others dont feel ashamed and can appreciate what they have”. its because he feels like something is missing and so he turned to the validation of strangers to fill it. which is fine. and human. but lets call a spade a spade and acknowledge it instead of just having everyone lie to themsleves.

its like that other mf on ig who made a huge following by showcasing his boring ass life where hed go into the office and insert his laptop into his backpack super slow. his whole shtick was like “this life may not be for everyone but i just wanna show ppl u can be happy while living like a normal mf”. and then his social notoriety reached an inflection point and he IMMEDIATELY was like fuck this shit im quitting my job and going to the country club to drink beer at midday and play golf. which i totally respect bc like ya dude ur life sucked shit before and now u can just do whatever tf u want

https://www.instagram.com/hubs.life_/

this dude deadass just rugpulled all the normies lmao. he built this huge ass following glamorizing the normal life and being like this is all you need to be happy. and then was able to fade it all and have a way more lit life and was like “Next!” so fucking good

but ppl got mad? but why? he’s happy now! i thought all u guys cared abt was people being happy with the life their living! oh wait thats actually not whats going on! you guys just look at these people living horrible lives and want to feel better abt ur own horrible lives and so u rationalize their horrible lives by saying its ok bc their happy.

well news flash buddy, they’re not happy and neither are you. you actually could be happy though if you just switch the way u think and start being able to discern between what ppl misdiagnose as happiness and what is almost always just a crippling apathy towards the wonderful gift that is life.

and before i get a bunch of fucking losers commenting on how im a hateful person ( i always get called a hater and i vehemently disagree i actually am top 0.01% LOVER) or people saying that im operating as if im in psychosis ( i’ve been told this twice in the past month which isn’t a lot but still interesting it’s happened twice), my question to u mfs is what if this makes me happy? what if writing this article where i’m dragging ppl thru the mad brings me happiness? shouldn’t it be ok then? BC IM HAPPY?

“but rameen your so called happiness is bringing other people down so no its not ok!’ you dont think seeing people waste their lives dating someone who’s only contribution to the world is having the personality of a wet piece of bread brings me down? you dont think seeing people quietly subjugate themselves to ordering fast casual slop to their door to eat on a goy table while their fiance does the same on her own respective goy table brings me the fuck down? it does and im tired of pretending it doesnt. and all you people who defend this behavior under the guise of “happiness” are bringing me down too. and shame on you for doing so

i dont know how you people look at yourselves in the mirror. honestly most of the ppl who think this way are fat so idk if a lot of you fuckers look in the mirror anyway as a jerryrigged method of preventing your own suicide.