this happened to me i went abroad w a group of people and this one girl who i hated was bopping around in europe bc european boys r hot asf and tall and honestly it would have been valid if she didn't have a loyal man waiting at home for her like a dog when u go to work for the day. nobody told this poor kid and maybe i should've but she was my roommate in this tiny hostel and she actually might have murdered me if she found out
i may be the odd one out but i’ve told friends when they’ve been cheated on and it has never benefited me, i’ve been yelled, screamed at, accused of not being happy for the person so that is why i now stay out of things. some people are beyond help and have to figure it out amongst themselves. people attract what they put out in the world and if it’s an asshole maybe to some degree they are also an asshole. the universe will only give you what matches you.
perhaps but honestly certain things are best to stay well out of. if it’s not your relationship it’s not your business. if it’s a running joke it’s a different thing but at the end of the day unless it directly affects you - and i’m asking this genuinely, why would you get involved?
If my friend is getting cheated on I am telling him immediately and would expect the same in return. Their reaction to that information is out of my control but the principle of informing my friend if they are being wronged is present in any meaningful friendship that I am in
it’s situation dependent. a person deep down will know if something is wrong in a relationship, as a grown adult if you have to be told what you probably already know then you weren’t in the correct relationship to begin with. i’ve told friends that their partners have been out of turn and it either resulted in “you’re wrong” (despite the fact i wasn’t) or they stayed regardless. to which i say again, people have to figure things out for themselves and also why you have to have a little background info on the people you date before seeing them. it’s arduous but it weeds people out very quickly.
so professor rameen. what if, hypothetically, i know someone who is cheating on his wife but he’s very much an authority figure in my life and it would probably burn down a lot lot lot of people in both his and my own life if i said something about it. his relation to me is much different than a friend which makes things a lot harder. but this is hypothetical obviously. like extra hypothetical.
One way to combat this one is to be in the driver seat and be the one cheating
This is the way
What’s the chads name I wanna sub to his stack
‘If my friends knew my wife was for the streetsmaxxing’ cracks me up lol
Thanks annexes I love u
Same, let’s lock it in
Needed this
this happened to me i went abroad w a group of people and this one girl who i hated was bopping around in europe bc european boys r hot asf and tall and honestly it would have been valid if she didn't have a loyal man waiting at home for her like a dog when u go to work for the day. nobody told this poor kid and maybe i should've but she was my roommate in this tiny hostel and she actually might have murdered me if she found out
We’re so cooked as a society me and my friend are reeling after reading that
the whole situation was she was fucking them to get drugs from them bc her plug was back in the states
Very easy generalization to make. I wonder if that were true, at what point were our morals at their highest level and what has caused their decline ?
i may be the odd one out but i’ve told friends when they’ve been cheated on and it has never benefited me, i’ve been yelled, screamed at, accused of not being happy for the person so that is why i now stay out of things. some people are beyond help and have to figure it out amongst themselves. people attract what they put out in the world and if it’s an asshole maybe to some degree they are also an asshole. the universe will only give you what matches you.
Skill issue
perhaps but honestly certain things are best to stay well out of. if it’s not your relationship it’s not your business. if it’s a running joke it’s a different thing but at the end of the day unless it directly affects you - and i’m asking this genuinely, why would you get involved?
If my friend is getting cheated on I am telling him immediately and would expect the same in return. Their reaction to that information is out of my control but the principle of informing my friend if they are being wronged is present in any meaningful friendship that I am in
it’s situation dependent. a person deep down will know if something is wrong in a relationship, as a grown adult if you have to be told what you probably already know then you weren’t in the correct relationship to begin with. i’ve told friends that their partners have been out of turn and it either resulted in “you’re wrong” (despite the fact i wasn’t) or they stayed regardless. to which i say again, people have to figure things out for themselves and also why you have to have a little background info on the people you date before seeing them. it’s arduous but it weeds people out very quickly.
so professor rameen. what if, hypothetically, i know someone who is cheating on his wife but he’s very much an authority figure in my life and it would probably burn down a lot lot lot of people in both his and my own life if i said something about it. his relation to me is much different than a friend which makes things a lot harder. but this is hypothetical obviously. like extra hypothetical.
But also im hypothetically friends with his daughter.
Give me the wife’s phone number I’ll tell her anonymously and u won’t have to face any of the backlash
now that is a real team player
real
Genuinely have no idea how that was ur takeaway on this
Taking this as a compliment 🥰