Society's morals are crumbling

And it's bc ppl are bitchmade

Society’s moral compass is something that has become a huge talking point in the mainstream media the past few years and depending on who you ask the problem is either apocalyptic or massively overblown. If you ask my boy Del Flazium (link to his stack here) society is cooked and we will never go back to the glory days of the past. If you had asked me 6 months ago i would’ve said that he has a boomer mentality and he’s been psyopped by the fearmongerers but in the past few months i’ve seen some behavior that is freaking me the fuck out.

What i’ve seen is people who have caught wind that their friend’s significant other has been up to some bullshit but they haven’t informed their friend. Now this is super concerning bc it could affect anyone who has motion and the consequences of it are insanely severe. Like imagine all your boys know that ur wife mucked some hung’s face at a bar but no ones told u. And u just prance around toting her thinking that u have a fire, wholesome wife but in reality she’s a bop. And EVERYONE in your circle knows. But u. Or imagine your husband is just deep in some blonde’s dms just farming pics of her fire front porch and all your friends know but they won’t tell you. And you think you’re so in love and u bring ur husb around and show him off to ur friends and u have no idea that everyone knows he’s been unfaithful. It’s humiliating.

Honestly the scenarios that inspired this post are even more HARAM than the imaginary scenarios I listed above.

Scenario 1: This chick I know from college adjacently was dating some mega chad bartard. So they’d been dating for a minute but she was abt to go study abroad and he was obviously not gonna do some soyboy, libcoded shit like studying abroad so they were gonna be long distance for like 3months. He obviously folded immediately, and spent a passion-filled night with some chick who was in the same PC as his gf (PC is pledge class for u non greek-life ball knowers). Naturally, word spread very fast, and since the chick was abroad with like 8 people from our school everyone she was abroad with found out too. The problem is that no one told her. Not her friends from back at school, not her literal best friend who was rooming with her abroad. No one told her. Obviously, this situation was already super fucked but it was made even more barred by the fact that he was coming to visit her on his spring break. So to summarize, this chick got cheated on by her mega chad husb, everyone in her circle found out, no one informed her, and now her husband is coming to spend an entire week with her in europe. I mean even removing the fact that infidelity is inherently horrible it’s also so incredibly humiliating to be cheated on and have everyone know abt it but u. Thats the part that really fucks w my head.

Scenario 2: Heard about this one a few months ago and it literally made my skin crawl. So my boy from chicago has a buddy who has a gf he’s been dating since freshman year of college, they’ve been living together for the past 6 months, and they’re now abt to get engaged. Sounds super fire and wholesome right? Only issue is sophomore year of college she cheated on her husb with some other taller mega chad multiple times. Now from what I heard, literally everyone knows about this. And the reason that it was brought up in the first place was bc my friend and 3 other kids were going to visit the guy. So they’re obviously very close. So i asked why he hadn’t told his friend that his wife had cheated on him before they got engaged bc u can’t let ur boy marry a bop like that. And his excuse was that he felt like it wasn’t his place.

This is the same thing the friends of the girl in scenario 1 would say. “It’s not my place”. But then who’s place is it? Idk if i heard of this happening to any of my boys i would literally tell them immediately. But it seems like people today want to assign he responsibility of informing their friends about the haram occurring in their midst to someone else instead of nutting up and just telling them. Now I’ve been in two serious relationships and haven’t been cheated on (that i know) but if i had i would’ve wanted to have been informed immediately. If my friends knew my wife was for the streetsmaxxing and didn’t tell me i would literally murder them. how are you gonna let your boy walk around and just get humiliation ritualed? I would crash the fuck out. Tell me and i’ll just clip her and move on. that should be the SOP.

The problem is when I hear these scenarios I obviously feel bad for the party that’s being cheated on. But I inevitably also lose respect for them. Like its unavoidable. If I see someone whos getting engaged to someone who cheated on them, I think less of them. This is the scariest part because the person cant even do anything about it. They dont know that they’ve been fucked on. But I do. And it will cause me to think less of you. So then I think what if this has happened to me, and people have seen me tote a pice thats been unfaithful. The thought literally makes me spiral.

I don’t understand what’s happening with the world if shit like this is allowed to slide. I guess i also don’t know if it’s something that has developed recently or if all throughout the past people have been bitchmade too. Honestly now that i think about it, i’m leaning towards people always being bitchmade and shying away from the tough convos. scary thought.

I guess the lesson here is to get friends who will tell u if ur significant other is hoemaxxing on u. Because otherwise you are at the mercy of whoever you are involved with, which is a horrifying thought. A world with no checks on this sort of behavior is not one that i want to live in. We, as a society need to be better.